tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233207434448612511.post342582374442632636..comments2023-12-20T08:32:41.349-05:00Comments on QueerCincinnati.com: Guerilla Queer Bar -- Lodge BarBarry Floorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10955883796568321038noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233207434448612511.post-87525206150716657452009-03-08T23:39:00.000-04:002009-03-08T23:39:00.000-04:00this was an awesome event and it was totally fun t...this was an awesome event and it was totally fun to see you there! i think all bars in cincinnati should be guerilla queered. my vote for the next bar is the stand. i swear at least half of those frat boys would secretly love a little man on man action.lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02757412748648257783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233207434448612511.post-10296373580052669202009-03-08T19:53:00.000-04:002009-03-08T19:53:00.000-04:00I thought it was a great night and appreciate side...I thought it was a great night and appreciate sidecar's comments. <BR/><BR/>Just as I feel ire when I hear someone equate something negative with "gay," I also get upset when people throw around "lame" as a slam. I realize that most of the time it is without thinking about the implications in terms of actual people with disabilities (just as people call something "gay" without thinking of actual gay people), but "lame" is used as a negative for much the same normative shitty reasons as "gay" (homophobia/ableism) so I've been working hard to remove it from my vocab despite how commonly it's used.<BR/><BR/>I can't wait for the next CGQB.<BR/><BR/>In solidarity,<BR/><BR/>Kkim_camhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01862809681511256645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233207434448612511.post-18547438750711366832009-03-08T19:30:00.000-04:002009-03-08T19:30:00.000-04:00the night was definitely a success even though we ...the night was definitely a success even though we had a few minor set backs... <BR/>but two things!<BR/><BR/>1. can you remove the link to kenneth's photos until there is a chance to censor some pictures?? we dont have consent from a few people in compromising shots and i think it's important to show mutual respect for the women that were dancing with us.<BR/><BR/>2. the ho/vagina comment is disheartening to me because many of us are intensely processing the ways that we interact with the straight community. for queer women, who want equal love and respect for all women (even if they are ignorant and rude and saying faggot), it's important that if we are attacking them... it's for what they said and not for how they dress. that only perpetuates the sexism and misogyny that we are trying to work through.<BR/><BR/>the event made a huge impact on friday. let's keep the impact as positive as possible on our end... that's the whole point right, to combat the negativity that the queer community faces. <BR/><BR/>love, solidarity, side-cars,<BR/><BR/>jess sistosidecarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06319301934877591683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8233207434448612511.post-89828692963972378402009-03-08T14:53:00.000-04:002009-03-08T14:53:00.000-04:00great blogg sir! i really enjoy it and thank you f...great blogg sir! i really enjoy it and thank you for the photo credit. this weekend has been too much fun. hope to see you out and about soon! <BR/><BR/>oh and p.s. Montgomery got the the word "gippster" from yours truly, since i am one ;-)little prince kwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06022438364417394146noreply@blogger.com