Led by Rep. John Adams, a group of state legislators have submitted a bill that would give fathers of unborn children a final say in whether or not an abortion can take place.I think there is a distinct sector of society that honestly believes that the only real people are those in long-term monogamous marriages, and that shotgun weddings are the answer to all of life's sexual problems.
It's a measure that, supporters say, would finally give fathers a choice.
"This is important because there are always two parents and fathers should have a say in the birth or the destruction of that child," said Adams, a Republican from Sidney. "I didn't bring it up to draw attention to myself or to be controversial. In most cases, when a child is born the father has financial responsibility for that child, so he should have a say."
As written, the bill would ban women from seeking an abortion without written consent from the father of the fetus. In cases where the identity of the father is unknown, women would be required to submit a list of possible fathers. The physician would be forced to conduct a paternity test from the provided list and then seek paternal permission to abort.
Claiming to not know the father's identity is not a viable excuse, according to the proposed legislation. Simply put: no father means no abortion.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
In Ohio, men tell women whether or not to have an abortion
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Day of Decision Upon Us
The rumors are flying, and it's starting to look like we will the California Supreme Court's decision on Proposition 8 on Thursday, though we won't know for sure until tomorrow. Both Joe.My.God. and Pam's House Blend and reported rumors that barricades are being dropped off in the Castro of San Francisco in expectation of the decision.Thursday, April 30, 2009
Maine Senate Approves, Baldacci Considers

Making this quick...
The Maine Senate approved the equal marriage bill forwarded to it by the Jucidiary Committee in a 20-15 vote, even overcoming an attempt to add a referendum amendment to the bill. Then, later, Governor Baldacci who has been obsequious about his support, called one of the Pam's House Blend authors at home and indicated that he is considering signing the bill.
From PHB:
I [Baldacci] was extremely impressed by the arguments for both sides, but especially by the proponents.I think, what we're seeing, is two things: one, people are starting to see that marriage for same-sex couples is not the end of the world, as some anticipated; and, two, that voting against it would put them on the wrong side of history.
They were very respectful- I liked that they turned their backs when they disagreed.
I was truly impressed by the people who spoke for the bill.
I was opposed to this for a long time, but people evolve, people change as time goes by...
At that point, he told me that civil rights sometimes take time to obtain.
I told him that I understood that all Mainers have an opinion regarding LD 1020 and while WE can all openly discuss them and many have already, HIS was the one opinion that had to be kept private and he HAS to keep quiet right now, as to let the legislative process play out without interference.
His response was that I was absolutely right.
Gathering Storm, indeed. Let's go, Maine!
Friday, April 3, 2009
Four best words out of Iowa today
Perhaps the most amazing words out of the ruling (available thanks to Pam's House Blend) today striking down the same-sex marriage ban in Iowa -- and legalizing equal marriage, to be enacted within three weeks.A unanimous decision.
Wow. Thank you, Iowa.

Update: Ha! My friend Sarah S. on Facebook: "YAY! I live in a progressive state! I'm thinking about marrying a woman just because I can!" Oh, but don't forget to watch the fabulous blogosphere of the Christian right -- I have no doubt that many more posts like this one from Peter LaBarberawill be popping up amidst the jubilation.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
DADT: And the saga goes on...
I think Pam's House Blend said it best, as they usually do:
My question -- why aren't all of these outraged officers signing on to a petition opposing the lowering of education and physical recruiting standards, or the enlistment of felons and gang members into their beloved military? Or what about the military's reluctance to deal with rapists in the ranks who terrorize female soldiers -- talk about unit cohesion!Duh. Because gays are the evilest, most vile, awfulest people ever to walk to the planet.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
HRC's Position on an Inclusive ENDA

Thanks to PamsHouseBlend...
It's the policy of HRC that the organization will only support an inclusive ENDA. In 2007 House leadership informed us that there were insufficient votes to pass an inclusive bill, so they decided to vote on a sexual orientation only bill. We made a one time exception to our policy in 2007 because we strongly believed that supporting this vote would do more to advance inclusive legislation. We will not support such a strategy again. We look forward to Congress sending President Obama a fully inclusive ENDA for his signature.I've oscillated on this point; my initial statements drew a lot of criticism. I was one of the "support it slowly" argument-makers -- you know, "let's get this now and work on other things later." Right. I have since changed my mind, clearly. I am now a inclusive-only ENDA supporter.
I'll let you read Pam's above linked article and make decisions for yourself on the situation and the change in policy.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Gainesville (FL) Goes Through Article XII
From Pam's House Blend...
Gainesville, FL is getting a brand spanking new law to fight. Guess what it reads?The reason this caught my eye? Because Cincinnati fought this off -- and won -- in 2004. In fact, it looks suspiciously like the old law in Cin-Town. Which law? Famous Article XII:
Amendment to City Charter Prohibiting the City from Providing Certain Civil Rights
Shall the City Charter Be Amended to prohibit the adoption or enforcement of ordinances, regulations, rules, or policies that provide protected status, preferences, or discrimination claims based on classification, characteristics, or orientations not recognized by the Florida Civil Rights Act. The act recognizes, race, color, creed, religion, gender, national origin, age, handicap, marital and familial status. Additionally, this amendment voids existing ordinances concerning sexual orientation, gender identity, and other ordinances inconsistent with this amendment.
“The City of Cincinnati …may not enact, adopt, enforce or administer any ordinance, regulation, rule or policy which provides that homosexual, lesbian, or bisexual orientation, status, conduct, or relationship constitutes, entitles or otherwise provides a person with the basis to have any claim of minority or protected status, quota preference or other preferential treatment.”It didn't take the commentators long -- the first comment, actually -- to make the connection. And, of course, there's always Romer v. Evans, but does it apply, this time? But, apparently, that only applies to states, even though the SCOTUS tried to send the message to Cinci that this applies here, too.
But, we'll see.
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Random Gay News Round-Up
In the past, someone like Spaulding would have been relegated to the sidelines. She doesn't work for national gay rights organizations such as the Human Rights Campaign or the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. She lives with her partner, Kate, an audiologist, in Durham, far from San Francisco, New York or Washington, where gay activism has been historically based. But now she's helping shape the agenda, one voice in a chorus of sometimes dissonant, sometimes harmonious, often in-your-face voices that is pushing established gay groups and redefining the meaning of grass-roots action in this new media age...It's an interesting article that has highlighted a lot of the stuff that has happened over the past few months amongst gay bloggers -- including the Rick Warren debacle and the JoinTheImpact movement. It's well done, over all.
"For me, blogging has been about looking outside my own lens. If it wasn't for reading blogs, for example, I wouldn't know as much as I know now about transgender issues," Spaulding says. "At first I thought, 'I'm not transgender. This is not my issue.' But then you read about it, you make the connections and you realize that, yes, I'm a part of that, too."
Monday, January 5, 2009
US Military likes everyone...

Apparently, after allowing people with more felonies join the army, the US military is now allowing people with higher weights sign up to meet the demand for activities around the globe.
True story.
But still no homosexuals.
And probably not until 2010 ... or later.
God bless the USA.
Thursday, November 13, 2008
A moment for Harvey Milk
From Pam's House Blend...
"Somewhere in Des Moines or San Antonio there is a young gay person who all the sudden realizes that he or she is gay; knows that if their parents find out they will be tossed out of the house, their classmates will taunt the child, and the Anita Bryant's and John Briggs' are doing their part on TV. And that child has several options: staying in the closet, and suicide.
And then one day that child might open the paper that says "Homosexual elected in San Francisco" and there are two new options: the option is to go to California, or stay in San Antonio and fight. Two days after I was elected I got a phone call and the voice was quite young. It was from Altoona, Pennsylvania. And the person said "Thanks".
And you've got to elect gay people, so that thousand upon thousands like that child know that there is hope for a better world; there is hope for a better tomorrow. Without hope, not only gays, but those who are blacks, the Asians, the disabled, the seniors, the us's: without hope the us's give up. I know that you can't live on hope alone, but without it, life is not worth living. And you, and you, and you, and you have got to give them hope."
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
GAY STUFF: BLOGGING: Write to Marry Day, 10/29
Today is Write to Marry Day for bloggers across the country!!!! (Thanks to JereKeys for reminding me, and thanks to Pam's House Blend for organizing this, and don't forget to check out my previous posting on the issues.)Now, I'm not one for marriage. It doesn't fit within my personal ideals of life. In fact, I'm kinda centrally anti-marriage as a heteronormative institution that is based on undermining women and should be destroyed from the get-go, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't allow people to shackle themselves if they want.
I kid, but only a little.
Seriously, marriage isn't my thing. Hell, monogamy isn't my think. Hell, dating isn't even my thing. That doesn't mean it isn't other people's. . . and the ongoing laws making the practice of same-sex illegal are nothing more than bigoted religious crap with no basis in reality except for the twisted nightmares of the far right.
And, in the end, I'm far more anti-right wing than anti-marriage.
I don't think this is going to make the "best of the web 2008" awards anytime soon :-).
There's some crazy stuff on YouTube about Prop 8 in California. First, one from the crazies, one of the sickest videos I have ever seen:
And then one from the good guys:
I love Dave. :-)
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Saturday, October 4, 2008
ELECTION 2008: What does CHANGE stand for?
A Florida middle school teacher faced disciplinary action after using the word "nigger" to describe Democratic presidential candidate Barack Obama, WJHG's Kristy Wolski reported.the 7th grade teacher, Greg Howard, asked his students what "change" stood for in relation to the Obama campaign and proceeded to write out the acronym "come help a nigger get elected."The school suspended Howard without pay for 10 days and removed him from his position at the school."That shouldn't happen," said Billy Delahunt, an Obama supporter."Because they're there to learn, they're not there to discriminate."
Saturday, July 12, 2008
GAY STUFF: Sick Treatment of Transperson
The tape clearly shows a Memphis police officer walk over to Johnson - a transsexual - and hit her in the face several times."Actually he was trying to get me to come over to where he was, and I responded by telling him that wasn't my name - that my mother didn't name me a 'faggot' or a 'he-she,' so he got upset and approached me. And that's when it started," Johnson said.
Johnson said the officer was attempting to call her over to be fingerprinted. She said she chose not respond to the derogatory name the officer called her.
"He said, 'I'm telling you, I'm giving you one more chance to get up.' So I'm looking at him, and he started putting his gloves on, and seen him take out a pair of handcuffs," Johnson said.
The officer hit Johnson several times with the handcuffs wrapped around his knuckles. In the video, you can see the flash of the metal. The tape shows another officer holding Johnson's shoulders as she tries to protect herself.
WHAT WHAT WHAT?
This is the statement from the Shelby County Sheriff's Department:
As it relates to the February incident that occurred at the jail facility, the police department has been conducting a thorough internal investigation. The details surrounding the complainant, witnesses and law enforcement officials’ statements are part of an ongoing investigation and can not be released at this time.
As a standard departmental policy, a full, impartial hearing will be held with the accused officer.
Memphis Police can confirm the work status of the two primary officers involved in this complaint. Officer J. Swain was a probationary officer and has been separated from the Memphis Police Department. Officer B. McRae has been placed on non-enforcement status pending an administrative hearing.
And here's the video:

