Showing posts with label Charleston. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Charleston. Show all posts

Friday, July 31, 2009

Away! Away! Away!



Off to Charleston -- maybe for the last time ever -- pray we stay in the air!

PS Check out the ad that I saw on QueerCincinnati.com, weird, huh? Especially considering the Scientologists are threatening (we think) to out John Travolta, at least his personal secrets, if he leaves the0 church cult religion practice.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Company, "Not Getting Married Today"

I once worked as the sound master for Company at the Footlight Players in Charleston, SC. It's one of the first musicals I've ever seen, and I still love it. Aside from other songs previously mentioned on this blog, this is one of my favorites. From the newest revival of the show, the most unbelievable elocution you will ever find by the amazing Heather Laws:

Previous incarnations by both Madeline Kahn and Carol Burnett, though slower for both, are also amazing and worth a check out.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Out of Charleston...


Thanks to United We Stand (which I really need to pay better attention to), I got heads up on this bit out of the Charleston City Paper (my home towns version of CityBeat): When I woke up this morning and decided to be gay.
Um, can I change my order, please? I choose eggs with a side of civil rights.

Maybe all of this choice stuff comes from the choice to come out. And that, I'll give you, is a conscious choice.

But it's not a choice about liking girls better than boys. Or being a Carolina fan as opposed to a Clemson fan. It's a choice to tell the truth about who you love and who you are, to live honestly, openly, and authentically and continue evolving into the best you possible.

How about this frightening choice? A Kentucky Senate committee has unanimously chosen to approve a bill that would prohibit unmarried couples from adopting children or being foster parents. If you're keeping track, that doesn't just affect the GLBT community, it affects unmarried straight couples too. Meaning, even Angelina and Brad couldn't adopt in Kentucky if this hateful little bill passes.

Most of my GLBT friends have, out of sheer necessity, delved into law, financial planning, and HIPAA regulations in an attempt to protect themselves, their partners, and families. If you're GLBT or a GLBT supporter in this generation, you better be ready to study, make phone calls, write letters, and march.

If I sound frustrated, I am. The California Supreme Court is pondering Proposition 8, so I'm feeling a bit edgy. On the other hand, I have people who care enough about my rights and life to study, make phone calls, write letters, and march.

And when my alarm sounds, I will sit up, swing my legs over the side of the bed in the early morning light, take a deep breath, and say, "Universe, I'm SALLY ALBRIGHT, and I choose me." (It's more invigorating than coffee.)
OK, OK, in the full argument, she relies on some pretty "typical" arguments about choosing to be gay or not... but, seriously, that's pretty advanced for the deep south. Seriously.

I still remember the day my BFF told me she wasn't able to stand my lifestyle anymore because, though she was very liberal, she just couldn't stomach the abomination.

And, seriously, she was a liberal.

And I'm addicted to the word "seriously." Seriously. Oh but note the picture above. That is what the paper decided to put next to the column. Seriously? 

Thursday, February 19, 2009

First Openly Gay Elected Official -- in SC


There are so many bizarre things to talk about in this story:

Guest blogger Nick Shalosky is Secretary of the South Carolina Stonewall Democrats. He is the first openly-gay elected official in South Carolina. At the age of 21, Shalosky was elected with 22 votes to the Charleston County District 20 Constituent School Board with a write-in campaign primarily organized through Facebook. He is a junior at the College of Charleston.
WOW. An openly gay elected official in my homestate and in my hometown. You know, there was an open lesbian running in that same district for the US House that lost by very little. I will say this: AFFA and the SCEC are great organizations, though a little out of touch with the rest of the world (when I offered to help with future organizing, they said "no, we can do it on our own"). I think this is kind of a major blow to them because they, no doubt, did not realize this was happening. But that is besides the point...

WOW. An unnamed, no-party candidate got elected to public office. Now, there was no one he was running against, and it only took 22 votes for him to be boosted into office, but that's still huge. Of course, the problem is that, now he's getting all of this attention, no doubt someone is going to want to take him down next go-round. Never underestimate the power of the fundamentalists. I wonder if he'll survive the next roung. But that is besides the point...

WOW. A 21-year-old used social media to get elected to public office! Not that there was much competition, and he was just a write-in candidate, and, really, 22 votes was all he could muster? I have 700+ friends on Facebook, I think I could scrounge up a few more than that. But that's besides the point...

WOW. Wait, so what is the point?

The point is this: Mr. Shalosky, congratulations. You have officially become my new hero, doing something that no one else has and breaking ground. It's unbelievable and wonderful. Thank you.

I just hope my snarkiness and bitchiness are wrong, and you serve the county well (I was a product of that school system, so, yea...), and you become successful.

Because, as we all know, no one listens to me on these sort of things.

Still, CONGRATULATIONS! :-) In a state where "first openly gay student body president" made front page news, this is no small feat.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Blog by phone!!!

First blog by phone.

I bought myself a smart phone - a Samsung Blackjack II. Overall good performance. Runs on Windows which means it could be faster, but Microsoft would probably just eat that up with unnecessary junk.

I do like checking my email via phone though. Not like I am responding any faster.

Joint celebration of my two sister's birthdays. 21 and 23. Jeez. Now we are all adults.

My mother is not happy with this.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas :-)

It's midnight, per our tradition, I've had a little to drink this Christmas Eve. And of course...



Merry Christmas, every one.

(Funny, I'm 26 and it's still hard to get to sleep this evening. But that's ok. I hear Santa upstairs. It's amazing that, no matter how old you get, things still remain the same.)

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Eve

I've been trying to write something over at Rainbow Cincinnati for the last 24 hours about traditions, but it's been hard to write. It's funny, Christmas traditions. That's all I'll say for now, but I'm really glad to be back in Charleston, SC right now.

It's been good to see everyone.

Even the prodigal daughter -- my sister, Em -- who was supposed to picking melons on Australian organic farms as a migrant worker this Christmas made it back. Surprised everyone. Epic fail on the rest of our presents. That, apparently, won as the present this year.

But it means we get to spend another Christmas together as a family, and that's nice. I keep waiting for the first Christmas the six (well, seven now, my brother's girlfriend is part of the family, and that makes me happy) of us don't spend as a family. I'm really glad it hasn't happened yet, and I'm really glad it's not this year.

I love my family, and the masses of board games we've played and DVD's we've watched in the last two days.

Anyways, I just wanted to check in with everyone and say hello, that I'm alive and I made it.

And I'm really thankful to all of you for reading, and thankful for Penny and Cody for contributing, and thankful to the CincyTwitterati and CincyBloggers for welcoming me into their lives, and, again, thankful to all of you for reading.

Merry Christmas Eve, and I'll see you tomorrow.

For now, I have to honor my brother's and my favorite tradition of 7 years: finding the one open bar on Christmas Eve and have a drink.

It will be the first time all four of us -- me and my three siblings -- get to go together.

I know you don't read this, Em, but I'm really happy you made it back.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

In exactly one week...

...I will be on a plain back to Charleston, SC. 

Where's it's a chilly 61 degrees tonight. Sucka's.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

GENERAL STUFF: My day in pictures

This is what I left behind, btw, when I moved to Cincinnati. Everytime I come home, it gets harder and harder to leave to go back to Cincy. I've lived in Paradise.

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

GENERAL STUFF: Islanders for Responsible Expansion

One Facebook, I was invited to join the group Islanders for Responsible Expansion (Facebook group here).

For the uninitiated (there's a lot of "i"s in that word), Charleston (SC) is facing a unique problem. Urban sprawl, like all southern cities, is explosive. We moved to Mt. Pleasant, a suburb just to the north across the harbor, in 1985-ish and Mt. P had just about 14,000 people. By the time I left in 2000 for college, it had grown to about 65,000 people. And, from what I understand, it may be pushing 80,000-100,000 people at this point. Unlike other southern cities -- Atlanta, Myrtle Beach, Charlotte, Birmingham, anything in Texas, for example -- Charleston has a very special history, and one their rightly proud of, coupled with one of the most beautiful juxtaposition of natural and man-made landscapes. This is central to the idea of Charleston.

There are a lot of debates and political issues that have come about because of this. From my own 15 years that I can remember, our long-time mayor (of Mt.P), Cheryl Woods-Flowers, and many of our town council was once ousted completely because people felt they were just rubber-stamping development with no idea. Additionally, there was the "battle of the beaches:" Sullivan's Island had chosen to remain a locals beach whereas the Isle of Palms decided to be more tourist oriented. Thus, the "Visitor's Center" in Mt. P had no information about Sullivan's Island, and the major new highway connected only to IOP as opposed to any major road built over SI -- only the sad two lane draw-bridge, which makes it hard to get in and out (imagine hurricane evacuations). The last, of course, is the situation with Daniel Island which was barely accessible by road, but is now accessible by the by-way I-526. You could not stop it after that. There was a huge fight over whether or not the port should build a huge multi-million facility there, making Charleston the largest port on the eastern seaboard. I believe they fought against it and won.

It's a lot of fun to live in a city like that. Always something new, and very difficult to believe how much the world changes every time I go home.

The reason for this blog is the above image. Piggly Wiggly is a famous southern grocery store. I say they're famous, because I see their "I'm Big on the Pig!" T-shirts all the way up here. Wal-mart, meanwhile, is pushing their mega-stores, which include a grocery store. Wando Crossing, a strip mall in Mt. P, had both a Pig and and Wal-mart where the Pig had, written into their lease agreement, no other grocery store would move into the strip mall. Wal-mart, later, regretted signing on as they could not expand -- so they left and may or may not have doomed that little piece of the world.

The whole point of that set up is this: IRE is happy with Piggly Wiggly for helping protect the world against Wal-mart. When, in reality, the Pig is only doing that because Wal-mart harms their business. Give them suburban sprawl that benefits them, and IRE is S-O-L.

All that said (and knowing that speaking specifically about any group has, in the past, had that group leave a comment), and so that there's no confusion: I 100% support IRE. I think it's wonderful what their doing, as James Island has some amazing natural beauty to it and I think their mission is wonderful:

ISLANDERS FOR RESPONSIBLE EXPANSION (IRE) is a grassroots organization dedicated to raising awareness of the impact development has on the natural beauty and resources of James Island and Folly Beach.

Our goal is to provide Islanders with the tools we need to protect ourselves against irresponsbile development. Together we can take action and stand up for our way of life and the home we love.

Charleston has a charm as being a small town -- and it is, in many ways, though it's now pushing 500,000-600,000 people (I'm excited to see the 2010 census about it). It is constantly rated as one of the most polite cities in the country, and their respect for their city and for their own history is admirable, and one that should be copied by other cities. When Hurricane Hugo destroyed the city, followed soon by the closing of the naval base, the entire tri-county area got together and worked as one to rebuild and make sure the city didn't die (a model of urban planning that needs to be followed in Cincinnati). SuperWalmarts and suburban sprawl (outside of the two major sprawling areas -- Hwy 17 in Mt. P and North Charleston along Rivers Ave) should be contained as best as it can.

Hurrah, IRE, Hurrah!!!!

And if you're confused as to where any of these places are, here's a convenient map (because I don't support large "real" businesses, but monopolistic internet businesses are A-OK).


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Saturday, May 10, 2008

GENERAL STUFF: College of Charleston Graduation

...was a wonderful success, congratulations to all.

And I'm going to give C. of C. some props. Rather than recessing to classical music, they chose this year to recess to... the Charleston.

It was a little bit of perfect.
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And I'm going to give a little shout out to all my Miami homies, who are graduating today as well in Oxford. Congratulations to you as well :-).

Friday, May 9, 2008

GENERAL STUFF: What's so great about being smart?

I was reading the hometown paper -- Charleston's Post & Courier -- and came across the following editorial.

Really smart people don't overestimate the value of being smart. Or, as an enlightening question of uncertain origin puts it: "If you're so smart, why
aren't you rich?"

Just as being "smart" doesn't guarantee wealth for homo sapiens, it doesn't guarantee longevity for other creatures. Tuesday's New York Times reported that a group of scientists at the University of Fribourg (Switzerland) have discovered that "being smart can be bad for an animal's health," and that forming the neuron connections needed to learn — a fundamental task to becoming smart — "may cause harmful side effects."

Consider the case of fruit flies clever enough to catch on more quickly than most of their kind. The offspring of those that learn how to avoid quinine samples injected into particular fruits in an experiment "pay a price for fast learning," according to biologist Tadeusz Kawecki, one of the project's leaders. When the offspring of the smart flies and the offspring of the non-smart flies had to compete for a "meager supply of yeast" in a follow-up experiment, only half of the smart flies survived while four-fifths of the "ordinary" flies did.

Evidently, to borrow another maxim, slow and steady still often wins the race. The research documented a 15 percent shorter life span for the more intelligent flies,
leading Prof. Kawecki to ask this leading question: "If it's so great to be
smart, why have most animals remained dumb?"

That same question could be applied to our species.

First of all, it seems to be saying two different things. At the first, it seems like it's making an argument for intelligence, but then it closes off saying that smart people die quickly -- but then seems to call everyone dumb. Second off, is it seriously making an argument that learning, and the capability to do so, is bad? Or, are you just being completely asinine and implying that ignorance truly is bliss.

I don't like the way the article was written and I'm 99% sure I disagree with the overall purpose. Education is not bad. Learning is not bad. In the interest of not taking an editorial as the word of god, I searched the original work:
We have shown that genetically-based improvement in learning ability can readily evolve under an ecologically relevant selection regime. Under the selection regime flies that learned to associate a potential oviposition medium with an aversive chemical (quinine), remembered this association, and continued to avoid this medium after the chemical has been removed, contributed more genes to the next generation. Within 20 generations these flies became able to learn substantially faster and remember much longer than their ancestors (Mery and Kawecki 2002, PNAS 99:14274-14279). This response generalizes to other stimuli and other olfactory aversive learning tasks, suggesting that evolution has acted on a "general" learning ability. However, the "smart" flies paid for their improved learning ability with reduced survival when food is scarce, presumably due to pleiotropic side-effects of genes that improve learning (Mery and Kawecki 2003, Proc. R. Soc. B 270:2465-2469, see also a comment by New Scientist). This indicates an evolutionary trade-off between learning ability and other aspects of performance. We have also shown that learning has operational costs: flies repeatedly forced to learn within their lifetime show a decline in fecundity (Mery and Kawecki 2004, Anim. Behav. 68:589-598). Finally, we have shown that long-term memory formation makes flies more vulnerable to environmental stress (Mery and Kawecki 2005, Science 308 p.1148).

In another set of experiments we tested the old idea that the ability to learn may facilitate genetically-based evolutionary change (known as the Baldwin effect). We could show that populations selected to prefer to oviposit on a pineapple substrate evolved a stronger genetically-based preference for pinapple if they were also given an opportunity to learn which medium should be preferred. However, the opposite effect of observed in populations selected for oviposition on another substrate (orange). These results indicate that the fact that a species learns can substantially affect its evolutionary change in a novel environment (Mery and Kawecki 2004, Evolution 58:757-767.). In collaboration with Honda Research Institute we are orking on mathematical and computer models of this effect.

The point of the study, I might point out is not the effect of learning on lifespan, but the effect of learning on the evolutionary process. This is like corporate America -- ie, the doing something because it's always been done that way situation (here, the Baldwin effect, where learning equals genetic selection of those who learn certain traits faster, and slowly leading "learning" to become instinct, may apply). Does this study necessarily say that "the ability to learn" = "shorter life span" or "lower fecundity?" No, because there are variables that may affect that that may not be part of this study. Again, this is science being taken out of context. All this experiment proves is that fruit flies can develop instinct-like behavior by increasing their learning abilities.

And besides, I ain't no fucking fruit fly. The experiment doesn't take into account logical thinking/reasoning (which does not equal learning), innovation (which is not learning), nor the fact that fruit flies were not designed, naturally, to learn in this method. Our genetic "advantage" over other creatures is to think. We were "selected" because we can think and reason. You can't detach humanity from the ability to learn; you can, it seems, turn on and off fruit flies ability to learn. This experiment is testing a Pavlovian response, it seems, matched up with this Baldwin effect.

Besides, our life span is around 75 in this country and most of the developed world -- up from the 40s and 50s of the not-so-distant past -- doesn't it seem to counter this argument?

Am I completely off base with this one?

And being a C student that becomes president means that you become the president with highest disapproval rating ever.


Sunday, March 9, 2008

OHIO/CINNKY: America's Favorite Cities

Having put that as the category, you'll notice that Ohio and Cincinnati fall no where on this map.



However, my hometown (Charleston) does appear on it. You know, every year, residents of Charleston would hear that we were rated the friendliest city in the country. Well, here are the 2007 results that again turn over the honor from Travel and Leisure Magazine (and the opportunity for you to vote for the 2008 results).

Anyways, I'm not really worried about it, but here are some highlights:

Best Overall Cityscape: Portland (1), Seattle (2)
Worst Overall Cityscape: Dallas-Fort Worth (24), Los Angeles (25)

Most Attractive People: Miami (1), San Diego (2), Charleston (3)
Least Attractive People: Dallas-Fort Worth (23), Washington DC (24), Philadelphia (25)

Most Fun People: New Orleans (1), Austin (2 -- yes, Texas), Honolulu (3)
Least Fun People: Phoenix-Scottsdale (23 -- btw, Scottsdale is where they get a LOT of reality show contestants, not kidding, go check out the cast list for some of these... that name just pops up a lot), Dallas Fort-Worth (24), Washington DC (25)

Best Overall Nightlife: New Orleans (1), Las Vegas (2), New York (3)
Worst Overall Nightlife: Phoenix-Scottsdale (23), Dallas-Fort Worth (24), Santa Fe (25)

Hrm, I'm looking and Phoenix and DFW seem to appear low on a lot of lists. In fact, Phoenix's highest rating is #6 in the Most Relaxing Retreat Category, but ranks in the bottom five in 35 of the categories. DFW's highest is #4 for Best Barbeque, but ranks in the bottom five in 44 of the categories.

Meanwhile, Charleston is number one in Friendliest, and only ranks in the bottom five in five categories (Clubbing -- 24, Gay-friendliness -- 21, Diverse - 20, Sport's Fan Vacation -- 24, Wild Weekend -- 21).

PS I also wrote in that Cincinnati should be included next year... I mean, something more than just Minneapolis-St. Paul in this area (like Atlanta, Chicago I think is "outside the region" as it's an international city with a midwestern flair). Columbus? Indy? Ann Arbor? St. Louis? Something? Ha. Well, at least I'm not in the great Western blah that's on the map -- Salt Lake City?