Thursday, September 18, 2008
PERSONAL/VLOGGING: Well Fuck Me Silly!
Well my life has finally changed in a big way: I moved out of my parents' house Tuesday and into my lovely doormroom on the UC campus. How bloody fantastic! So far it's been pretty cool (even though I've stayed in my room most of today) and I've got a handful of new friends. And my 'fridge is still barren... I really need to go buy food... and drinks...
AND the best news of all!!! The YouTube vlog has officially begun!
In it I talk about some random stuff like moving and all that jazz, and soon I will have a spinoff YouTube channel specifically for QueerCincinnati related posts. Hopefully I will be out and about living the life enough to keep up on events, reviews, and more about the greater Cincinnati gay life. I'll vlog about all of it, cuz what in life is better than reading about a rookie newb and the shit he can get into?! I may even see of we can get some collab stuff put together with other gay Cincy vloggers like DanRambles and Mikiepg84, who are both cool as hell.
It's too bad I must be in Fort Wright for a meeting Saturday night because I would have loved to get out to Adonis for the show... For those who don't know, Jason Walker will be there performing, and from what I've heard he's pretty amazing. Adonis also has a pretty cool looking website with streaming music to get the thumpa-thumpa in your home!
That's all from The Seeker now. Later lovies!
-Cody
BTW the title was meant to be one of those, "Whuh?" things... It wasn't meant as an invite.*
*Unless under exceptionally hot (and safe) circumstances... lol
BLOGGING: New Column Up!
Gender.Here is my whole column set over there
My mother still has no idea what I mean when I reference gender in discussion. I don't think 3/4 of the people I talk to know what I mean by it. When I talk about "gender deviation" or "trans-identity," the impression I get from the pallid stares is that most people are picturing a drag show in their head. And, while that immediate gut reaction is valid and important - as drag is probably the most regular example of gender performance that people can relate to - it is not everything. However, the rhetoric of the gay rights movement probably rests on a better understanding of the spectrum that gender implies.
(Click here for the rest)
Darren, also, has updated. Here is a preview of his fabulous new posting:
It's been a busy summer. Starved for new things to do in the Queen City, I've ventured into some unfamiliar territory...and I have some tales to tell.
Last month a friend of mine (a not-so-single white female) took part in a lingerie show at the Lil' Bit bar down on Vine Street. I'd never been there before, so I showed up...just in time to see Allyson dancing around the bar, clad in black lacy lingerie, pimping herself out for tips. Allyson's straight, but let's face it...lesbians love cute girls in their underwear, no matter what their sexual orientation is. Some of the other girls who performed (mostly lesbians) were knockouts. Watching them bump and grind on top of the bar, I suddenly felt like I'd wandered into the movie 'Coyote Ugly', where the gals talk tough and pour some mean drinks. One particularly striking young woman caught my eye. Yes, you read that correctly. Every once in a while I find myself "intrigued by" ("attracted to" is an expression I'm not ready to commit to yet) certain women. Don't worry, guys, this boy's as gay as a Barry Manilow Christmas special; but it's nice to know that I can find other women both attractive and intriguing. Or perhaps I simply like a nice set of breasts, like everybody else. It's like looking at the Himalayas; I have no desire to climb them, but they sure do look nice.
(click here for the rest)
Juliet has gone quiet over there, but she's in the middle of being in love and we all know how that is for lesbians. :-) Them and their u-haulistic tendencies.
Click the image below for the rest of the excellent content over at gaycincinnati.com!
GENERAL STUFF: Heard outside...
Damn, I'm about to play crazy so people will do shit for me.
What are the implications of this for the healthcare system???
GAY STUFF: Boys Beware!!! (1961)
Aside from the funny little bits about homosexuality, the funniest thing in this 10-minute 1961 educational film about the "danger[ous] and contagious" "mental illness" of homosexuality is the whole bit about "if your friend gets into a car with a stranger, make sure you write down the license plate number."
Oh? Is that what kids are doing wrong when they get into cars with strangers? Not writing down the license plate number?
Stolen from Ex-gay Watch (soon to be blogrolled)
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
BLOGGING: CALLING A BLOGGER BOYCOTT!!!!
Remember it? Remember when McCain criticizes Obama for being nothing more than a celebrity? Right. And Sarah Palin is, now, what?
A Republican celebrity.
I am officially boycotting any mention of her from here on out. I will not mention Sarah Palin after today. I will not mention anything about her, about the absurdities and stupidities of the Palin life.
You hear that Sarah: I am done with you.
You will no longer get free press from me because of how stupid you are and how desperate picking you proves that McCain is. I am done with your lies, and I am done with the egregious lying the Republican party is putting out in support of you. I am done with everything you are, the anti-gay stance you have politically (even if you support them "personally"), done with the fact that in your two years as governor you only did two things about HIV/AIDS in your whole state (and both were just declarations), done with the fact that you have no experience and are ladened with more scandal than the rest of the world combined.
I am done with your "executive experience." You have none, and you are nothing.
Did you hear that, Sarah?
You are nothing and the equivalent of bubble gum on the foot of the American political system.
This is my final post on you. I encourage others to join me -- I encourage others to write one last post on why they are done -- and I call this a Blogger Boycott.
Remember, if you just stop talking about her, she goes away.
Monday, September 15, 2008
LAW: Florida law on its way out
The law is up to be challenged again in Florida that bans gay people from adopting.
Let's hope they carry through this time.
From the Miami Herald article:
At the heart of the Monroe case is a 13-year-old boy with learning disabilities and special needs who has lived in his Key West foster father's two-story home since the Department of Children & Families placed him there in 2001. The boy is identified as John Doe. The father, 52, is not identified.
Audlin appointed the foster father as guardian for the boy in 2006. At a recent hearing, the boy testified he wanted the man to be his ''forever father'' -- like all the other kids had -- ''because I love him,'' the order says.
A home study by a social worker ''highly'' recommended the guardian and his partner be allowed to adopt the boy, saying the two men provided a ''loving and nurturing home,'' provided ''fair and consistent'' discipline and are financially secure, the order
says.Miami attorney Alan Mishael, who represents John Doe's guardian, declined to discuss the ruling, since Audlin has not yet published it formally. He said the ruling is less about public policy than the welfare of a former foster child who wants a father of his own.
''This is a case about a young man who already had a permanent guardian but wanted to have a father,'' Mishael said. ``That's what the case is about. That's all it's about.''
Bout damn time. Fuck you Bushes for letting this carrying on (and fuck you Crist for not doing anything about it either).
I will never forgive a Bush for this. I will never forgive a Bush for the Federal Marriage Amendment. I will never forgive McCain for picking Sarah "pray the gay out" Palin.
Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, fuck you.
Am I getting through? Am I being clear?
BLOGGING: Making money off QueerCincinnati.com
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You know, lots of spam out there and all.
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Have a good day.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
GAY STUFF: Logo's Top 50 LGBT Movies
1. Loving Annabelle* -
2. Brokeback Mountain
3. Latter Days*
4. Beautiful Thing
5. D.E.B.S.* -
6. Trick^
7. Tipping the Velvet* -
8. Big Eden*
9. Get Real* -
10. But I'm a Cheerleader^
*I've never seen
-I've never heard of
^Also appeared on my list.
LOL And Amazon.Com's "Most Watched GLBT Movies."
1. Longtime Companion* -
2. And the Band Played On
3. The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert
4. Steel Magnolias (really?)
5. First Wives Club (really? are these two gay?)
6. Love Valour Compassion*
7. Clueless (really? again, gay?)
8. Zero Patience*
9. Priest* -
10. In & Out
You'll notice the latter list is missing anything on my top ten.
And, importantly, there's a great list over here of GLBT movies to share with your teen.
PERSONAL: Postscript
Single again.
Now taking applications for weekend, drunken text messaging friends for fun makeout sessions with no emotional involvement. LOL
Or, you know, true love.
OHIO/CINNKY: Wind Storm
OK, my power went out and wasn't able to post any of my pictures and, by the time I can get them up, the story will be moot. So, sorry about that.
However, I thought I'd clue you in:
Word on the street is that they are going to deem this a disaster so that they can call in as many people as possible into the hospitals to deal with all the traumas that are going on.
Because I can't show you my world, let's look at the reactions and pics sent from other place...
At least one person is dead
CincyMoms' Forum
Apparently it really hurt gamers too
Nearly/Over 600,000 Out of Power
Cincinnati's Blog Great Take on It
CityKin has some excellent pictures
Shockingly, both the blogosphere and the online news sources are suspiciously quiet on the apocalypse storm outside. LOL
That's Ike running away -- thanks Cincinnati.com weather service for the picture!!!
Update:
Wine Me, Dine Me and BuyCincy both talk about the fires around Findlay Market, and the fact that it seems Grammer's building is burning. Pictures from BuyCincy:
UPDATE:
There was a meeting and it appears not every hospital in town is fully prepared for this sort of thing and there is talk of other hospitals -- including the VA -- sending everyone who requires something like, say, an XRay here. Love it.
ELECTION 2008: Tina Fey as Palin
I think it's brilliant that major news places are now covering SNL mockery.
This is dead on. Bless you, Tina Fey.
And don't forget about the VPILF thing. :-)
Oh and this is sheer brilliance... in honor of Sarah Palin's rather creative names for her children -- Willow, Piper, Trac, Trig, and Bristol -- there is the Sarah Palin Baby Name Generator. My name would be "Stinger Assassin Palin" if I were birthed out of Sarah Palin's vag. (Thanks Clark Street Blog !!!!)
Saturday, September 13, 2008
PERSONAL / DAYTON GAY SCENE: Out and About at Club Masque
So yeah, I finally went to Masque for the first time last night and I quite enjoyed it! One of my hags and I drove up there as our moving-away-celebration. I thought it had a great atmosphere and the DJs are just fabulous! Never did dance though... We were both feelin slightly under-the-weather (damn buffalo chicken strips from Culver's are goooood, but HOT...). I can't wait to go back with more people!
OMG I cleaned my room and started packing to move out today... Holy shit... I have two more days of having this house as my permanent home, and then it will all change for the rest of eternity. Clifton, here I come! And get ready Northside, you probably won't notice me when I come! haha
On a side note: Gotta give a shout-out to Danrambles (on the blogroll) for his new text blog and YouTube vlog. Never has a rambling gay mixologist sounded so entertaining! Check it!
-Cody, always Seeking...
www.youtube.com/saabdude67
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=650725329
CINCY GAY SCENE: On the side of my building
... hrm. I think I was meant to live here. This is on the side of my building. LOL. Hello Ms. Delph.
BLOGGING: Back online and changing browsers!!
I became a Google Chrome user when my internet got hooked up today (which was a five hour process, btw... the poor guy setting up my internet -- "Apparently, the previous resident was stealing cable. This building has never been hooked up before."
Thursday, September 11, 2008
GENERAL STUFF: September 11th
At the Pentagon
in Boston
I don't think the designer of the Vietnam War Memorial quite knew that she was forever altering the way we honored our fallen.
Where was I?
It's funny, because I remembered this clearly this morning as I walked into class aroudn 8:30am. I was at Miami University and I remember seeing clusters of people in classrooms watching TV. I didn't think about it -- I had a presentation in my World Politics class on, get this, the effects of globalization on the developing world.
The TV was on in the classroom. I arrived right around 827am. The first plane had hit and it was only moments until the second hit. We just sat there and watch.
The professor was a few moments late. She walked in, obviously fresh from a copy machine or something... she had a lot of papers in her hand. She started: "All right, are you guys..." Stopped, looked at the screen, and said, "What the hell is going on?"
A few minutes later, we saw the plane hit. Then she walked over to me and my partner -- he was freshman, I remember that, he never forgave me for the A- we got on that project -- and said "in light of all this, would you guys like to delay your presentation for a week or so?"
I got really high that day and sat on my front porch and smoked a lot of cigarettes.
When Bush finally spoke, I remember saying: "I am glad he's our president right now."
Strange world.
What do you remember?
OHIO/CINNKY: Cincinnati's Annual Manual
POP CULTURE: Next Musical Movie???
My count over the last 10-12 years is:
Evita
Hairspray
Dreamgirls
Chicago
Sweeny Todd
Madame Butterfly
Phantom of the Opera
The Producers
Rent
Mamma Mia!
Am I missing any?
Oh, and I was totally thinking that they shoudl remake the Legally Blonde movie in the musical form -- but how post-modern would it be if there was a movie made into a musical made into a movie musical? Weird.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
GAY STUFF: God Adores You
Picture from the Havens Corners Church website
So I missed, briefly, the news item last week that said a church in Ohio -- Havens Corners Church -- put on their sign "I Kissed a Girl Then I Went to Hell." Now, I'm a big fan of church signs. They are usually the cleverest things out there when it comes to tricky word play. This one is actually pretty funny. :-)
Well, apparently, the sign has now been defaced by gay activists in this manner:
I'm sorry to the person who wrote the article, but I think it's funny and clever. I do think we can do a little juvenile prankster-isms. It's fun, it's crazy, and I'll bet you that is the one and only acknowledgement of the presence of homosexuals the town of Blacklick has ever seen.
We may need maturity and acumen most of the time, Mr. Withers, but every now and again we need to shake up people's reality with a little bit of just being "out there."
You know, being ourselves.
Maybe I do need to join the Radical Homosexual Agenda (my post about it), after all.
PS Before this blog is posted, if you searched for "Havens Corners Church" in Google Images, you get few pictures of the church itself, but you get a lot of gay pictures -- including Out.com logos. And, the QitC logo appears on page 4.