Sunday, February 17, 2008

OHIO/CINNKY: Price Hill Girls

I really really like my neighborhood -- East Price Hill -- and I have great hope for it to come back as a nice place in the world. (I mean, really, it has some of the best home architecture in the city, if it can be a little small -- it just needs someone to take care of it.) But one of my coworkers at job #2 sent me and AM to this YouTube bit that I just can't stop laughing at. What's really funny is the guys are from CCU, which I consider a joke anyways.



What's really funny is they then started a website -- www.pricehillgirls.com -- which reportedly gives a portion of the money they make off MERCHANDISE back to the community. Their website says:

One of the goals we have by selling merchandise is to raise a certain amount of money from each item sold and then give it back to the community. Our plan is to take this raised amount and donate it to a different community outreach in the Price Hill area every month.


I don't know how old the website is, but it's getting some play on the media (here on WKRC-12) and in the local blogosphere (on the Daily Bellwether and at Nasty, Brutish, and Short for example). Apparently people are offended for any variety of reasons that people get offended at parodies. I just think it's funny, and the news can't report stuff like this "because it's there" -- since it involves "singing and dancing and ethnic movement" (quote from Legally Blonde: The Musical), I think people decided to make a controversy over nothing.

Regardless, I have no problems with Price Hill and have actually had more problems in Clifton and Northside, in terms of being approached, being put in bad situation, having my car broken into, than I ever have in Price Hill or the Westside. And I've even been to Lower Price Hill. The Mexican and Appalachian folk were nice down there.

If you want to see what YOU can do for MY community (and, more broadly, Cincinnati as a whole), go to our award-winning and highly active civic organization:

WRITING: iloveyou

Also wrote this a few years ago, gonna tweak it soon.

iloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyou
butiamtoochickenshittotellyou
soiwont
mywordswillfindthemselves
plasteredonwallsyouwillneverpass
writtenonpaperyouwillneverfind
saidintophoneswithnooneontheotherend
iloveyouiloveyouiloveyouiloveyou

WRITING: Instructions for your body

Wrote this a long, long time ago... well, four or five years. I'm looking to tweak it. Anyways, here it is.

I want to rub my hands across the soft cream of your body. I want to make indentures into your stomach and watch the white spot linger and go. I will watch you drowsily roll over towards me, open your eyes briefly, and smile. I could watch you smile forever. I could hold you here just as long. Entwine my arms around yours, underneath yours like a complicated puzzle. I will wrap my body into yours, matching jigsaw for jigsaw, as I curl and scoot closer to your. The sound of your mumbled, have-dozed how are you brings me home. The feeling of flesh and bone. The gentleness of a lover. Kiss gently the soft skinned cheek, trailing my lips over your neck and onto the top of your spine. Slowly run my hand across the bone down your naked back, clad only in blanket and cold air. You shiver and move closer to my warmth. The minor heat of your body does not fill me, but your presence does. I move my hand down your peach soft legs. Your scent of baby newness and budding leaves reach my nostrils and I take it in. What are you doing. A half heard and half understood question; I lean in to run my lips against yours, open now. They are dry like mine. I feel you smile, and I lick your upper lip in response. You are too much. Does it matter who says it? We both feel it as I reach around to hold on. I inhale your exhaled breath. You are ticklish down where your body meets your legs, so I caress that spot. I want you closer. You jerk and giggle a little. We are matched skin for skin but still I want you closer. Still I want you more. I play briefly in the patch of hair below your belly button. You press closer still, tighter, nearer, further into my embrace. Hands rubbing hands, fingers pressing into flesh, lips running over shoulders and necks. I will not let you sleep until I have had my fill of your body, of your breath, of your being. More than an exchange of lust, it is an exchange of desire and love. I know that tomorrow I will climb dazed from your bed. I know that tomorrow I will have to leave this. But, for now, a tender feeling and perfect moment.

Saturday, February 16, 2008

GAY STUFF: Two bits found quickly

I found two things on the web that I'm surprised had not yet passed my ears:

1) Milestone for Equality
From Cleveland.com, reported by Jeff Coryell, Governor Ted Strickland (D-OH) appointed the state's first openly LGBT judge -- Mary Wiseman, a former city commissioner of the city of Dayton, who fills the spot of the retiring Montgomery County Common Pleas Court Judge John Kessler. She is up for election this year, and I hope that she wins :-). It's amazing ... I'm on a lot of listservs and I never heard about this.

2) Gay Ohio History Initiative
I can't quite figure this one out, as there's not a lot of content on the site. But it seems rather... interesting. I'm thinking of contacting them and seeing what they have so far. Outlook Weekly and the Ohio Historical Society are involved. They have a special endowment too... which, I'm sure, got a lot of giggles when they posted that on the web for the first time. The following is a collection of seeming missions they have on the website:
The purpose of the Gay Ohio History Initiative is to collect, archive and curate the history and culture of the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender [GLBT] community in Ohio...We want to share LGBT culture and history with all Ohioans, to create opportunities for understanding of both the past and what is hoped for in the future...


No, really. They seem, well, at least truthful in their intent. I signed up for their listserv, so we'll see what comes through, yes? I am always interested on learning about special endowments.

But this is neat, Columbus Pride from 1982 (the year I was born) on their website -- be warned, it's 1.5 hours long :-):

ELECTION 2008: Most Disturbing things ever

OK, so I don't hate Obama completely, but there are some really absurd things going on out there. I think that the Stop the ACLU blog (yes, I know, I can't believe I'm referencing them, either) puts it together nicely... a preacher friend of mine and I had a similar conversation the other day. Does cult of personality on the left do anything different than a cult of personality from the right -- especially when religion is so deeply entwined into both?

The fever pitch of Obamania is getting kind of scary actually. Like, really really scary. It's hard to watch the news, in fact. You can almost see the halo they are painting over his head.

Like these people over at the Is Barack Obama the Messiah? blog, which I really, really hope is sarcasm. They open their blog with this rather disturbing quote:


.. a light will shine through that window, a beam of light will come down upon you, you will experience an epiphany … and you will suddenly realize that you must go to the polls and vote for Obama" - Barack Obama, Lebanon, New Hampshire.January 7, 2008.

AHHHHH!!! Although, there's a new fun term going around the web -- Clintonista. I don't think that's fair.

PS -- on a more humorous note: this blog will tie Obama and Clinton in the amount of blogs I've written about either candidate. No really.

BLOGGING: WTF is going on with QITC

I've been blogging a lot lately. I'm enjoying it.

A couple quick things to update you on "where we are:"

1) We are about to pass the 500-viewer mark. I think that's kind of exciting.

2) I'm delving into the world of RSS and del.icio.us . . . I think. TY is going to explain how this helps and what it does exactly in the next few days.

3) I've reorganized the blogs. There are now "SuperLabels" and "Labels" (I was inspired by the presidential candidate nominating process). Because I now have listed off the archives (to the right of the blog) so that you can see the titles of the blogs, I have placed the SuperLabel for each individual blog in front of the titles so you know what the general category is. As of right now, there are 12 "SuperLabels."

  • Blogging -- 6
  • Cincy Gay Scene -- 8
  • Politics -- 5
  • Gay Stuff -- 12
  • General Stuff -- 7
  • Personal -- 9
  • Pop Culture -- 5
  • Environment -- 1
  • Law -- 2
  • Fagwatch -- 2
  • Election 2008 -- 16
The "Labels" are varied and include things like George W. Bush, Vaccine (as in HIV/AIDS), Merck (there are two labels), heteronormativity, gay marriage, and the names of people involved in the blog. I don't know if you care at all, but I'm going to try it.

4) I have, in fact, received my computer -- minus the speakers and the cable that's supposed to connect the printer to the computer -- however, I am not currently on it, and I will not even be able to set it up until Monday or Wednesday due to an exhausting work schedule. The children living in my house hate me right now, because they can't use the nice new computer yet... and that makes me smile for some reason. :-)

5) I'm printing off cards to advertise my blog. I just want someone to talk to :-). It will probably be ready by the next Oxford show on the 22nd. I need a big audience to start spreading the love with. And it worked so well with the gonorrhea to have a big group around...

6) I have over 30 blogs from this month alone -- I am typing fiercely these days.

7) Something's up with the formatting on blogs with pictures in them. It's starting to annoy me.

That's all for now... but I'm at Job#3 for another 5.5 hours, so you may hear from me again real soon!

POP CULTURE: National Support Britney Spears Day


Oh yes, folks. You're reading that picture right there... National Support Britney Spears Day: March 1st, 2008.
The girl has done gone crazy, and the Support Britney Spears Blog has called for the world to show their support for the disgraced, drugged, and ditsy diva. Ignore the fact that we are, at the moment, potentially electing either a black or female president... ignore the fact that the Iran/Lebanon situation is getting out of hand... or that the Iraq War is still going on... or any number of things that are going on in the world. We are going to hold a National Support Britney Spears Day.
This is how I figure it all came down, as it wasn't even news, really, until E! News reported on it; however, the "public support" angle originates from Lynne Spears, her mother, requested that people just pray for her troubled starlet daughter. This, of course, spawned a website: Prayers for Britney. Which, btw, I'm going to say is nothing more than a blog and bad one at that (I never say I was any good at it, I might point out).
I want to meet the people at the Support Britney Spears blog and throw soft, non-harmful things at them... like pillows or pies... to show them the absurdity of their request.
Now, because I believe in absurdity, I will, of course, be celebrating the day (don't laugh -- how many of you also celebrated National Talk Like a Pirate Day -- a fad, I might argue, that started up around the time Pirates of the Carribean came out). This is how the blog recommends I celebrate:
"To show your solidarity,sport your Brit tees and gear, pick up a copy of Blackout, or just blast 'Piece of Me' while driving down the pike!"
I, however, do not own Blackout, and, though I like Piece of Me, I prefer Toxic and Why Don't You Do Something (which I have a video of on DVD). And, btw, I don't have a single Britney "tee" or "gear." So, instead, I'm going to watch bad entertainment television (Channel 25 on Cincinnati's Time Warner Cable), and tune into the POP station of my Sirius Radio. Then I'm going to drink, heavily, maybe take an anti-depressant, freak out in front of small children whilst drinking starbucks (a milkshake -- so I can throw it at a car later), then give head to a guy on a balcony while other people watch, and, to top it all off, I'm going to shave my head. All to the sound of Britney's remake of a Bobby Brown song. Oh, and, naturally, I'll refer to myself in the third person.
Anyone care to join?

POP CULTURE: Make Me a Supermodel



In the great tradition of television, one station has stolen another station's idea and changed it, but only slightly.

In this case, we have BravoTV's (a division of NBC) Make Me a Supermodel, which is awfully similar to America's Next Top Model (owned by VH1, which is owned by Viacom, which also owns MTV -- did you know that?), which was mimicked by its own network by America's Most Smartest Model and whose Season 1 winner, Adrianne, brings us My Fair Brady (which she only got after a brief stint on The Surreal Life with her now husband) and which spawned the spinoff the Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency (a show I LOVE, but only because Janice is fabulous and obsessed with stripping her models down as much as possible -- appears on Oxygen), which is now spinning off Abbey & Janice (will appear on Oxygen).



Anyways... I like Make Me a Supermodel, but only much for the same reason I really like America's Most Smartest Model. There are really hot boys that are half naked repeatedly throughout the show. There is no other value to it but that. I'm sorry guys, but, much like the ladies of ANTM, it is very unlikely we will ever see you again. I give props to Eva for being very successful (ANTM Cycle ... 3? ... winner), and Adrianne for forcing her way into our lives, but I haven't seen hide nor hair of anyone else.


(On a brief side note: I wonder if these shows suffer, also, from the Project Runway curse -- where the show winners tend to dive bomb immediately after being on TV. Shandi from Cycle BLAH of ANTM said that's what happened to her.)
Regardless, Make Me a Supermodel even brought us straight boys posing in underwear and gay poses. LOVE IT! Too bad it's destroying American television :-).
But just look how pretty the boys are!

In case you're curious -- Perry Ullmann is on top, Ronnie Kroell is in the middle, and Ben DiChiara is the one to the left. Ben has been in the bottom 3 several times, Ronnie is just now in the bottom 3 -- is the only openly gay one and in love with Ben, and Perry is like the superman of the show. Plus, there's this:


It was one of their photo shoots. Sigh.

Oh, and, btw, Holly is FABULOUS.

GAY STUFF: "Mixed Orientation"


I just had to laugh at this on the front page of CNN.

When Your Spouse Announces He is Gay

That's right, folks. You think mix-racial families are the cutting edge? How about mixed-orientation families?

Just what the radical right needs ... "Look, you can be gay and still part of a loving hetero relationship... but remember, sodomy and adultery are still sins. Have a GREAT marriage."

The story is actually really sweet, and it's a neat thing to cover.

But I can't believe that CNN is going to popularize the term "mixed orientation families."

HA! I'm filing this under my "Gay Marriage" label.

These are the Wills -- Ann Marie and Jim.

Ann Marie just found out her husband, Jim, is gay.

The world is shocked.

Based on this picture, I thought she was a lesbian.

(picture taken from cnn.com)

Friday, February 15, 2008

ELECTION 2008: Interesting upcoming event

Off the QCityNews Blog via the Cincinnati Blog (www.cincinnati.blogspot.com):

Rally for Hillary

Sunday, March 2, 2008 at 3:00 PM - 10:00 PM
Where: Adonis, 4601 Kellogg Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45226

General Area: east side of town near near Old Coney, Riverbend, Lunkin airport

This Rally will be held on Sunday, March 2nd, to accommodate some special guests. This is just two days before the Ohio primary!

Doors open at 3:00 PM. $7.00 each person requested. EVERYONE is welcomed to join us in our big HILLARY rally just before the Ohio primary! This event is at an upscale night club, casual dress is OK! Everyone knows that Ohio will be a crucial battleground state, and Hillary needs your support for Ohio! If you're not in Ohio we still want you here, the more the merrier!

This will not be a boring political event, there will be FUN for everyone! We will have keynote democratic speakers, food, fun, dancing and lots of Hillary stuff for everyone! We are having this event in the mid to later afternoon so people from all over the state of Ohio can attend. If you would like to stay the night in Cincinnati please let us know if you need hotel information and we will forward it to you. More info at www.myspace.com/hillaryohio $7.00 each person requested donation. Camera's are welcomed!

Host
Jeff Harney
PS.
We'll pass along information a bout the local Clinton Campaign office as soon as we have it, at this wrting that information is not available.


You better believe I'll be there. :-)

ELECTION 2008: Selling Hope

First off, I love it that the internet has made the idea of "private content" non-existant. For example, a respected Washington Post columnist (that is also published in the Enquirer) has his articles posted all over the web -- thus not requiring me to be a Washintong Post subscriber.

Like here, reposted at Real Clear Politics.

Though I've actually called it -- I am guessing that Obama will likely be the Democratic nominee for the President, though I am still a huge Hillary supporter -- Charles Krauthammer (ha, when I do porn, I want my name to be Chuck Kraut-hammer) here says very nicely what I've been saying all along: Obama talks (and looks) pretty, but there's nothing there.

A) We still know very little about him as a politician. What does he stand for? How are his plans going to work? Have you read his plans? No? Because they're little more than "work together" and "hope." Blah blah blah. I liked Clinton's comment today in response to most of what he says -- "do you want speeches or solutions."

B) There's nothing to criticize him on because he's been around for so little time. Well, at least, not yet. The media has yet to start scrutinizing him -- he's the golden boy at the moment. I'm coining a new term -- deanscream -- you know, that one unintentional move you thought would be great that inadvertently destroys your political career/campaign. Do you remember Dean, the current chairman of the DNC? Yea, remember how he was the golden boy of the media until his own deanscream (the origination of the word). Two points here:

B-1) What happens at Obama's deanscream when he's suddenly the nominee? Obama has less political experience than Dean did.

B-2) The primaries are where golden boys are made -- ie, Obama and McCain. What happens in the real race when the gloves come off? Obama has poo-poo'd Clinton's attacks as "oh that's just not fair" or "oh, she's just being the bitch she's always been" or "this is just an example as politics as usual." Well, you don't get to be president without going through politics as usual. He's not going to be able to brush everyone aside forever. Remember, right now, he's talking to people who like him... the Democrats. What happens when the Republicans stop fighting internally and start fighting him? They have some dirty tricks, and, guess what, McCain is more politics as usual than Clinton is.

C) George W. Bush was elected in a cult of personality -- Obama seems dangerously close to the left's answer. The right has already pointed to him as the most liberal Senator currently serving. It seems like once they latch onto that, it's going to be just as divisive as before.

I'm sorry, kids. I'm worried about the man. If he's the nominee, I'll support him and I'll put my Obama sticker on my car, but...

I want to vote for a politician for a political office. A lot of dictators were great orators, too.

CINCY GAY SCENE: Chubby Back

From my favorite local queen (check her out in "my favs" -- Penny Tration)...



...I need a donut.

GAY STUFF: In the spirit



...Found this on Wikipedia. Where is your state?

POLITICS/GAY STUFF: ENDA: A brief history

This information is coming from Govtrack.us -- the specific website here -- which tracks the activity of Congress.

April 24, 2007
HR 2015 -- proposed by Rep Barney Frank (D-MA) -- it seems to have just evaporated, but includes the protections for gender-identity and expression. It died in committed.

September 27, 2007
HR 3685 -- proposed by Rep. Frank, and cosponsored by Rep. Andrews (D-NJ), Rep. Cohen (D-TN), Rep Filner (D-CA), Rep. Harman (D-CA), Rep. Miller (D-CA), Rep. Pryce (D-OH), Rep. Shays (R-CT), Rep. Schultz (D-FL), Rep. Woolsey (D-CA) -- it was proposed and put into committee.

November 7, 2007
House Amendments 882 & 883 -- accepted, allowing for exemptions for religious institutions and clarifying some language, specifically in regards to the term "marriage."

House Amendment 884 -- by Rep Baldwin (D-WI), the so-called "Baldwin Amendment" -- that was withdrawn the same day.

ENDA PASSES THE HOUSE by a roll call vote of 235-184-14(absent/NV)

Where are we now?
It is in the Senate. Not voted on. Please remember, any additional amendments are going to have to be sent back to the House (I think). We can either leave it the way it is and get it passed or cause a roadblock and stop it from passing. Please remember, the first time this bill was proposed was in 1974 -- the so-called "Gay Rights Bill" -- and we've been trying to pass it ever since.

This is the closest its been in 34 years. We need to let it get through. It will make future changes -- including the addition of gender-identity and expression easier in the future.

So, if you want to do anything, we need to start doing something.

Your Challenge
If you choose to accept it...

1) Call you Senators and urge them to vote for it. For information on how to contact your Senator -- go here to Project VoteSmart (I've been using this website for almost 9 years -- it really is fantastic). And make sure you urge them to vote on ENDA. Clarify that, though you support the original language that has protections for gender-identity and -expression, you still want to see ENDA go through.

1a) While you're at Project VoteSmart, check out to see if your Representative voted yay on ENDA. (Mine did not, btw, Steve Chabot voted NAY.)

2) Go to NoSubstitutes.org, a project of the National Stonewall Democrats, and fill in the form to say that you support the original language of the bill.

3) Call your state governor and urge them to lobby your Senator -- and the President -- to pass ENDA, though you wish there was still gender-identity and -expression protections in the bill. Hell, even call the president. All of the numbers can be easily accessed through Project VoteSmart or any other public information website.

4) Post your progress in the comments section of this blog.

What do you think folks?

Thursday, February 14, 2008

LAW: Texas ban on sale of adult toys overturned

Going to be a few moments before I can post the actual text of the decision, but:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23155562

That's right, quoting Lawrence and Garvner v. Texas (which overturned sodomy laws in 2003), the appeals judge states: "Just as in Lawrence, the state here wants to use its laws to enforce a public moral code by restricting private intimate conduct. The case is not about public sex. It is not about controlling commerce in sex. It is about controlling what people do in the privacy of their own homes because the state is morally opposed to a certain type of consensual private intimate conduct. This is an insufficient justification after Lawrence."

Now Alabama is the only state left to have real strict statutes against it.

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

POLITICS/GAY STUFF: LGB -T-?

OK, so the following opinion piece was written by Jon Winklemen and published in the Nov. 16 2007 NY Blade -- which I have appropriated off of Facebook.

My response to the people shouting to cut off ENDA because it does not include trans-protections is this: IT'S A FREAKING START. A brilliant idea: let's stop a good bill from going through because it does not include everyone in the community. Alright, a fine argument, but, at the moment, there are no protections for anyone.

I will say this now, if they leave out the G in LGBT and just tried to pass an LBT protections bill -- GO AHEAD! Because, guess what, the G will probably come soon.

If you don't believe that things are getting better and the addition of "T" won't be easier in 3, 4, or 5 years, or under a Dem-Congress + Dem-Pres, then you're not paying attention. ENDA as it is is a START. It isn't even the end of the freaking movement. It's not like we're picking a presidential candidate here -- "Here's what you got, now run with it." No, laws build off each other. And one law enacted helps to enact further, related laws.

So, LET ENDA PASS! Yes, I would love to have the T in there, and I prefer that it would be in there, and I think there should be honest, fully heart felt attempts to add it onto the bill... but, don't go as far as to try to BLOCK the bill as it is now.

ADD TO, DON'T TAKE AWAY.

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And here's the original post that got me riled up:
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$30 Million Lies: Joe Must Go!
HRC should be accountable for ENDA betrayal.

The Human Rights Campaign proudly positions itself as the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender organization in the country. Indeed, with an annual budget of more than $30 million, HRC is responsible for managing the largest share of our community’s investment in securing equality for all Americans.

What does that $30 million buy the LGBT Community? $30 million certainly buys us mugs, baseball caps, necklaces and blue and gold teddy bears with a logo that was appropriated from another organization without permission or credit. $30 million buys exclusive black-tie dinners, boxes of non-descript bumper stickers and a concert tour with Cyndi Lauper. I believe it is time for our community to be demanding a much larger return on our money.

In the recent debate over the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, HRC failed to take a principled position to oppose a stripped-down version of the legislation out of fear that the organization would lose its “special relationships” on Capitol Hill. HRC President Joe Solmonese routinely cited this as the chief excuse for their inaction. It was then that HRC showed its true colors and what our $30 million was actually buying.

LET US BE CLEAR. HRC had previously committed itself to the passage of an ENDA, which provided protections on the basis of both sexual orientation and gender identity. Yet, it has become clear that HRC told our community that they maintained a strategy to ensure the passage of this legislation when they clearly did not and never had any intention of doing so.

HRC has devoted a large amount of time during the past month to forwarding the argument that the debate over ENDA was about incremental tactics, which get us something, versus moral absolutes, which achieve nothing. This was a false argument, and as stewards of our community’s treasure, we shouldn’t let the leadership of HRC get away with this. Promoting this lie might have suited the nuanced position of HRC but it did not serve its members or the community it claims to represent. $30 million should buy strategy and strength
not subterfuge and spin.

Although HRC continued to tell its membership that the organization was feverishly working for an inclusive ENDA during the past month, it was not. The public statement of HRC did not neatly match its aggressive private push for a non-inclusive bill. As constituents, it is time we demand that our $30 million buys accountability.

I do believe that HRC used our hard earned money to build a power base on Capitol Hill, yet it refused to use that power when our community was at stake. Political insiders consent that HRC’s public opposition could have stopped a bad bill from moving forward. Instead, HRC chose to preserve its “special relationships” by failing to demonstrate its strength. Our community deserves a power player, not an over-eager intern just happy to take notes in dictatorial meetings. $30 million should advance the protections of our most vulnerable members rather than the careers and connection of a few elite insiders.

IT IS TIME THAT our community demands accountability and answers from the leadership at the Human Rights Campaign. HRC should publicly declare that it will oppose any future efforts to strip gender identity from non-discrimination bills.

The organization should use its congressional scorecard to reward the seven Members of Congress who opposed the substitute ENDA out of pro-LGBT principals and not give them anything less than a perfect score on the ENDA vote. And HRC should demonstrate what efforts it will now undertake to truly educate Congress on issues of gender identity (again, it has been asking for our money under the assumption that it already has).

As part of that, HRC should set a numerical goal of 10 percent transgender representation on its national boards and all local steering committees. $30 million should buy a commitment from HRC to actually do the job we are paying HRC to do.

Furthermore, HRC holds its own staff accountable for actions that contradict the policy of its Board of Directors. For more than a month, HRC privately lobbied for a non-inclusive ENDA while telling its members that they were doing everything they could to build support for gender identity protections. This was not only a public lie, but also a betrayal of their own organizational policy—and a fireable offense at most organizations. HRC should dismiss any strategist or staff member who is guilty. $30 million dollars should buy institutional integrity.

Privately, many LGBT organizations, their leaders and other community activists are saying they can no longer trust the word of Joe Solmonese and others in HRC’s staff that acted with deceit and duplicity on ENDA. However, HRC is a $30 million juggernaut that also acts as the conduit between donors and smaller grassroots organizations. They fear dissent will be punished and their organizations will lose vital funding. $30 million should buy trust, partnership and respect for others. It should not buy fear, smear or the threat of retaliation.

HRC is supposed to act as our guardian. Perhaps it is time for Joe Solmonese to resign his position so HRC can rebuild the credibility and trust it has lost. The Roman poet Juvenal wrote “Quis custodiet ipsos custodes?” colloquially translated as “Who watches the watchers?” At the very least, it is time for our community to demand our largest organization become more accountable and effective with the $30 millions we give to it. It is time we demand “JOE MUST GO!”

Jon Winkleman has been a local community activist on LGBT, HIV, reproductive choice and labor issues for more than two decades with many different grassroots organizations, though the views represented here do not necessarily reflect those organizations.

The JOE MUST GO coalition will rally on the National Transgender Day of Remembrance, 6-8 p.m. Tuesday Nov. 20, in Sheridan Square at Christopher Street. The rally honors the transgender heroes who participated in the Stonewall Rebellion and also protests HRC’s betrayal of the transgender community, as HRC will be hosting a networking event at the Stonewall Bar across the street.
© 2007 The New York Blade A Window Media Publication

CINCY GAY SCENE: Karaoke Night at BronZ...

...is a bigger success online than in real life.

Now, don't get me wrong, I love me some BronZ, and I love Karaoke Nights there -- DJ Waves is excellent. But, per an "internal memo" leaked to the media, it was one of the top ten most viewed items on the Cincinnati.com website in the week of Jan 27-Feb 2. It claims that it was viewed 50,000+ times that week. Which, btw, is a LOT of times (compared to the under 1000 times this blog has been viewed).

Now, the QCityNews Blog (www.qcitynews.blogspot.com) thinks the number is absurd. The Daily Bellwether (www.thebellwetherdaily.blogspot.com) is also suspicious of the numbers. I hesitate to believe that 500,000+ people actually are that interested in the CincyMoms website, but I'm going to say this:

The number is not impossible. Whereas QCityNews' editor has been involved with the printing and publishing industry for years, and I respect that, I think the internet can very much skew our perception of who is reading what. But, with the wonders of the internet, we have the ability to actually see what is being read and when and from where. It's not perfect, but short of tracking down individual computers, then the little clicker that's reading off in someone's office is the best we've got.

And I'll bet you this, QCity: Your own readership is higher than you expect. I don't know how you calculate your numbers, but I read a lot of your papers in the bar. Guess what I do with it when I'm done? Excepting those issues that pertain to me or have something really interesting in it, I put it back. So our dear local bartenders don't have to clean it up. And I'm not the only one. Papers left on the bar? Either thrown out or saved and put back. People reading while waiting? Thrown out or put back. I'm sure there's a really complex algebra to your circulation stats, but I'll bet it's higher than you think. (I know because I get phone calls whenever my name is mentioned :-))

First of all: the bit is found in CinWeekly, which I now see around town more a lot more than CityBeat, it's competitor. (SCF in Macon will remember a similar situation in his hometown where the major newspaper published an "independent" to compete with the actual independent paper... meet CinWeekly -- published by Gannett, which publishes the Enquirer -- and CityBeat -- the actual independent, that, I might remind, was pressured by Citizens for Community Values to pull the plug on Dan Savage's column... grrrr... but this is all tangential).

The point is: CinWeekly has a readership of mainly young urban white folks... the types that would have access to the internet on a regular basis. And I'm going to say, if I were in those photos, I would be emailing them to EVERYONE and showing them to the world to see just how cool I am. So assume, first, that maybe it was emailed out a bunch and that friends would pull up a page and say "ooo, look at me!"

Second of all: What is the effect of bookmarking? For example, that CincyMoms number, how many people have CincyMoms as their initial page when they open. I know I open an internet program 2-20 times a day. Multiply that out (I'm sure MSN wonders why so many people are interested in their front page :-)). Did the story appear on the front page, I wonder?

Third of all: Do not assume that Cincinnati is so small. The metro area... NKY to Dayton... is HUGE, with over 3 million people in it. 50,000 is a drop in the bucket, and I'm going to guess that Cincinnati.com is one of the most popular local websites. It is not entirely unlikely that people have perused through. Does that mean they spend an hour being affected by everything they read? Absolutely not. It just means that it is not unlikely that 50,000 people actually opened the page.

I think the QCityNews editor, and Mr. Bellwether for that matter, is under the assumption that Cincinnati is a small town with a limited number of "in" people that you are trying to grasp for everything. Please.

Fact of the matter is: This is a local gay bar -- that's not the typical ones that get played out, like Below Zero or Universal Grille or Adonis or the Dock -- and a local gay event that got some major play on a mainstream and popular website. So what if the number is a little inflated? We know the Gannett-Enquirer Dark Empire has pulled some crappy stuff in the past, and it is most definitely not pro-gay or liberal by any stretch of the imagination, but it's still kinda cool. Go BronZ. You got some publicity. Congratulations to you.

On the flip side, the so-called controversy drove me to the website. So maybe making a mountain out of a molehole is not such a bad idea.

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

GENERAL STUFF: In the long run, I'll be cheap!

I read this brief little tidbit on neat-o-rama (www.neatorama.com), but I hadn't had the chance to really follow up with it:

Fat People, Smokers Cheaper to Treat
(Washington Post Reprint of an AP story here: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/02/05/AR2008020502507.html)

A study out of the Netherlands finds that, based on life expectancy of "healthy people" (84 years) vs "obese people" (80 years) vs "smokers" (77 years) -- it actually costs the health system $40,000+ to care for "healthy people." The study, mind you, is very limited and limited to a universal healthcare state (ie, one where the entire society is bearing the burden of the cost for treatment), found that, over the course of life, "healthy people" cost $417,000 to treat, "obese people" cost $371,000, and "smokers" cost $326,000.

A couple of questions that I would like to see the original study for:

1) Is there a break down for the relative Body Mass Indeces (BMI's) per cost? For example, do you assign a dollar amount or year amount for every point of BMI you gain or lose?

2) How much smoking are we talking about here? What about on-again, off-again smokers?

3) And does this study become prescriptive and suggest genocide for the elderly to save us all a buck? You know, buying your final resting place during the government's final solution.

4) Additionally, was it polite to place the judgment-laden word "FAT" in the title of the AP article? I mean really. I think it should be entitled "Chubby Chasers Rejoice: Your Lover Won't Cost You Much." Western Journalism at its best.

Regardless, I think it's fun, because AS a smoker (on my worst days, one pack a day; on my best... well, one pack a day), and AS an "obese" person (despite recent weight losses, my BMI is hovering around 30.1 ... 0.1 over the "obese" line), it's nice to know that, in the long run, I am as cheap as everyone says I am. (What's real fun, is that, if I worked just my main job, it would take me 12 years of my ENTIRE SALARY -- no taxes, no expenses -- to pay off my medical bills, assuming they label me primarily as a "smoker" and not a "fattie fat fattie")

GENERAL STUFF: What the hell...

So I'm a big old nerd, and this is kind of fun. I think languages are cool. This is the Lord's Prayer ("Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be thy name...") in a couple of different languages. And they aren't "German" or "Chinese."

I'm really having trouble getting into work tonight.

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Patro nia, kiu estas en la ĉielo,
sanktigata estu Via nomo.
Venu Via regno.
Fariĝu Via volo,
kiel en la ĉielo, tiel ankaŭ sur la tero.

Nian panon ĉiutagan donu al ni hodiaŭ.
Kaj pardonu al ni niajn ŝuldojn,
kiel ankaŭ ni pardonas al niaj ŝuldantoj.
Kaj ne konduku nin en tenton,
sed liberigu nin de la malbono.

Ĉar Via estas la regno
kaj la potenco
kaj la gloro eterne.

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Ar n-Athair a tha air nèamh: gu naomhaichear d'ainm.
Thigeadh do rìoghachd.
Dèanar do thoil air an talamh,
mar a nithear air nèamh.
Tabhair dhuinn an-diugh ar n-aran làitheil,
agus maith dhuinn ar fiachan,
amhail mar a mhaitheas sinne d'ar luchd-fiach.
Agus na leig ann am buaireadh sinn,
ach saor sinn o olc.
[Oir is leatsa an Rìoghachd, agus an Cùmhachd
agus a' Ghlòir, gu sìorraidh.]

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Baba yetu uliye mbinguni,
Jina lako litukuzwe,
Ufalme wako uje,
Mapenzi yako yatimizwe,
hapa duniani kama huko mbinguni.
Utupe leo riziki yetu.
Utusamehe deni zetu,
kama sisi nasi tuwasamehevyo wadeni wetu.
Na usitutie majaribuni,
lakini utuokoe na yule mwovu.
[Kwa kuwa ufalme ni wako, na nguvu, na utukufu, hata milele.]
Amina.

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Ha. So I got to to this by searching the internet for Esperanto. :-) What a nerdy nerdy nerdy language.

I want to learn it so badly.

Thursday, February 7, 2008

GAY STUFF: Ted Haggard

This little bit comes out about Ted Haggard... ahem, coming out of the "spiritual restoration" process that they document as being "incomplete." I know, Ted, I wouldn't be able to give meth-fueled gay escort visits, either, if I had them.
I do like JoeMyGod's word that he used about this -- "straightification." I think it will be a new label for my blogs.

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Brady Boyd
Senior Pastor
New Life Church
Colorado Springs, CO

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Ted Haggard's leadership of New Life Church for many years was extraordinary and the depth of spiritual maturity that is found today in the church is in large part attributed to his leadership as the founding senior pastor.

In January 2007, Ted Haggard voluntarily agreed to enter a process of spiritual restoration. He has selected Phoenix First Assembly and Pastor Tommy Barnett as his local church fellowship and is maintaining an accountability relationship there. He has recently requested to end his official relationship with the New Life Church Restoration Team and this has been accepted by them.

New Life Church recognizes the process of restoring Ted Haggard is incomplete and maintains its original stance that he should not return to vocational ministry. However, we wish him and his family only success in the future.

Because spiritual restoration is a necessarily confidential process, the church does not anticipate that it, or its Overseers or Restorers will make further comment about it.

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(via the www.joemygod.blogspot.com -- Joe. My. God. -- blog)