PS. In regards to gay marriages in California... I don't know if anyone caught the joint statement, posted on the ACLU website, asking people to "Make Change, Not Lawsuits," where they are encouraging people not to go to Cali to get married and then challenge their home states' marriage laws. They want to do this as a coordinated effort.
That's all well and good, politically...
...but it's absurd that you could ask people not to celebrate their love. Couples that have been together for twice more than I have been alive should not be played into some politicking by big, corporate LGBT rights organizations.
No, let them marry. That is their right now.
Marriage is about love, not rights.