Sunday, July 5, 2009
RUMOR MILL REPORT: Pride
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Gay History: June 30, 1979
A group of 40 people in Cincinnati Ohio who had reserved a city park pool for a gay pride party were outnumbered and attacked by local residents who threw rocks and bottles at them. Police arrived, watched for a while and then drove away. One man had to be rescued by a television news crew. Police refused to return, even after several calls reporting a riot.I have a feeling at least one of my readers will be able to confirm this, or know someone who can confirm this so we can get an interview and learn more about the incident???
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Indianapolis Pride!
Monday, June 15, 2009
First Final Thought on Pride
- At the Serpent last night, the bartender came over the intercom announcing that we were being locked in due to some bad shit happening on Hamilton Avenue. Rumors were flying. Best I can tell, sorting through, there was a fight (truth), cops were arresting people (truth), possibly arresting anyone on the street for about thirty minutes (half-truth), maybe a window got broken (rumor -- couldn't find the broken window), all the bars were advising people to stay inside (possible half-truth), and telling people that they COULDN'T leave made them want to leave anymore ("well, they can't tell me what to do!" -- queens! truth). Again, I cannot find any details other than what I experienced, but rumors were flying faster that queers to the barstools.
- Check out the pictures from Metromix -- are you on there?
- Apparently there's a "Cincinnati gay relationships examiner" over at Examiner.com (a lot of new bloggers over there!). He gives the whole experience a thumbs up; I do, too, but you know I've got something coming about my take. I had an interesting debrief this morning about the whole Pride thing; as we were talking, my first thought was, "I need to blog this!" But I'm tired.
- Oh, and I'm hungover. I'm going to bed. Kisses!
And don't forget my Facebook pictures and the Twitpics from yesterday!
Sunday, June 14, 2009
My Pride So Far
It's been an insane day. I told a whole bunch of people that I felt like I was chasing people all day, following tweets and texts and phone calls, going here and there to catch someone for a drink. After waking up hungover from a great night out last night at Adonis, I stumbled on down to the parade. Wasn't bad. I'm working on pictures on my Facebook and in my Flickr stream and my Twitpic stream. Lots of pictures. These are just the five best.
Pride So Far
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Pride Week!
I know this is totally and completely nerdy...And I know I've been kind of critic of the whole process...
And I know Cincinnati's isn't the coolest in the region...
And I kind know what I'm going to expect in terms of stuff happening...
And my siblings will probably be here and staying with me...
...but I have to say, I'm kind of excited Pride is here :-).
In fact, I'm really excited Pride is here.
Check out the CityBeat article featuring me and Jamie from Stuff Queer People Need to Know and Cameron from IMPACTCincinnati and... etc. etc. etc. And don't forget Wolfie from Back2Stonewall.com's article -- Reason to Rally.
Friday, June 5, 2009
Volunteers Needed All Around!
- Councilmember Greg Harris -- One of the most supportive councilmembers in Cincinnati has requested people to march with them in the parade. One of his volunteers says this in an email: "Since Greg stepped into Cincinnati politics he has been an outspoken supporter of fairness, and equal rights for our community. This election we will be losing a supporting voice on Council, thus, it is critical that Vice Mayor Crowley’s voice be continued by Councilmember Greg Harris. Both Vice Mayor Crowley and Councilmember Harris have a history of standing with our community when it is not politically popular—it is imperative that we keep that history alive." Interested people should email spencer at keepgregharris dot com.
- Equality Cincinnati -- EC seems to be looking primarily for help with their booth staffing, from their Facebook event invite (linked above): "It is that time of year again, Pride is upon us and we need your help at the Pride Festival. Equality Cincinnati will once again be having a both at the festival and we are looking for people to help man the booth during the event... If you can give two hours or more of your time on either day, we would love to have you. It is a great chance to socialize, network and spread the word of what Equality Cincinnati has and wants to do in the Greater Cincinnati Area." If you want to help out, email Dan, dpdrentec at aol dot com.
- Equality Ohio -- EO is actually looking for volunteers for every Ohio Pride, including people to staff booths, march in parades, collect EHEA signatures, sell memberships, etc. All volunteers will receive an Equality Ohio t-shirt.
- HRC-Cincinnnati -- Looking for people to staff the booth, march in the parade, and canvass the crowd to support the Human Rights Campaign. Interested people should contact their local email address, hrccincinnati at gmail dot com.
- IMPACTCincinnati -- The activist network is not, to my knowledge, marching in the parade, however, they do have a booth two days in a row that desperately needs to be manned (or womanned, or trans'd... gr... needs to be covered). I'll be there Saturday afternoon with Juliet, as will Cody! Come say "hi" even if you can't help out! Email IMPACTCincinnati, impactcincinnati at gmail dot com.
- Ohio Democratic Party LGBT Caucus -- Sent out via Facebook (linked), looking to fill shifts at booths, sell memberships, and get petition signatures.
- Squealing with Pride 2009 -- Pride Planning is pretty much over, as far as I understand, though they have huge needs in set up, take down, and just general operations. Trust me, this is the hardest job you'll do, but it can actually be a lot of fun (and you look cool, with a walkie talkie if you're one of the lucky few to snag one). Email the Pride Committee, pride at cincyglbt dot com.
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Massive Community Calendar Update

Flash Action! Queer folks are heading (back) out to Maineville this evening (6/2 at 9:00pm) to stand in solidarity against hate at Tabby's American Grill, where an alleged hate crime occurred last week! We've gotten some positive response from the bar, and we're looking to stand with them and make this a peaceful queer bomb! Check out the coverage we got at Towleroad!
Milk: Summer Underground returns tomorrow, Wednesday the 3rd. Cincinnati's experiment in fabulous music and great dancing had a strong turn out last week -- probably around 80 folks! The organizer said that, from what he's heard, he expects this week to be even bigger! Make sure you check it out and add MILK to your Facebook friends!
- 5:00pm-7:00pm: World's Gayest Office Party, hosted by the Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce at Yadda Club
- 8:00pm-10:00pm: HRC First Friday, hosted by the local organizing community, at Crazy Fox Saloon
- 10:00pm: Return of Guerrilla Queer Bar -- and, trust me guys, this sounds like the most fun one of all!!!
- Friday, June 12th, 5:00pm-9:00pm: "Pride in Our Party," hosted by the Ohio Democratic LGBT Caucus, at Below Zero Lounge, with honorable hosts Rep. Steve Driehaus, Ohio AG Richard Cordray, Ohio Treasure Kevin Boyce, County Commissioner Todd Portune, Rep. Connie Pillich, and Rep. Denise Driehaus
- Friday, June 12th, 8:30p: Rainbow Candlelight Vigil across the Purple People Bridge, organizers are planning a mini-march with groups forming at both the north and south ends of the Purple People Bridge and marching to the middle; at the end, the group will march together south towards Kentucky (more information later)
- Saturday, June 13th, 3:00pm-9:00pm: Pride Festival at Hoffner Park in Northside
- Sunday, June 14th, 12:00pm-1:00pm: Pre-Pride Parade Rally at Burnet Woods
- Sunday, June 14th, 1:00pm-3:00pm: Pride Parade from Burnet Woods in Clifton to Northside
- Sunday, June 14th, 1:00pm-7:00pm: Pride Festival at Hoffner Park in Northside
Thursday, May 28, 2009
WANTED: Pride Contributors!!!!!!
Obviously, the unpaid, volunteer-only writers of QueerCincinnati.com cannot attend all of them (though we'll do our damnedest to cover Cincinnati's Pride as best as we can). That's why WE NEED YOUR HELP!!!!
Are you going to a Pride outside of Cincinnati this year, even as close as Dayton or Columbus? We want your pictures, your thoughts, your stories... in short, we're asking you to guest blog next month on what it was like at Prides across the Midwest and across the country! I know at least one person going to New York City's Pride this summer -- which should be huge, considering it's the 40th anniversary of Stonewall. Or, do you live in another part of the country/world and want to report back on how awesome your new hometown pride is? We want to hear that too!!!!
If you are going elsewhere, shoot us an email (queercincinnati@gmail.com) or leave a comment with your email address... we'd love for you to help us out!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Gay Pride News!
I am so thrilled and excited and pumped to announce this...
Oxford Gay Pride ParadeThis Parade is for all members of the LGBTQ community and others who support not only our rights, but the civil rights of all human beings--better known as "Allies". This is an opportunity for us to display our Pride through a loving and peaceful march across campus.
Bring your fiercest pumps, beat your mugs (wear make-up), snatch your wigs, bring signs/posters, and get ready stomp like Naomi down the runway!
Person 1 at a meeting (P1): You know, we should do this in NKY.Person 2 at a meeting (P2): Yea, that'd be great!P1: But not this year.P2: Nah... but we could start planning for 2010.P1: YEA! What do you think about... (random details)Later, at a bar:
P1 (or 2): Guess what we're doing?Person three, a friend or acquaintance or potential trick
(P3): What?P1/2: We're planning gay pride for NKY in 2010.P3: OMG! What a great idea! I should tell people about this!
I am, thus, killing this as nothing unless you can prove otherwise.
Oh, and the new GLCC website launched. It's a lot easier to remember, this time around, rather than the five word address they used to have.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Pride Logo -- Take 2
Hm. My post on the 2009 Cincy Pride logo is the most popular ever, and the most commented on. Seriously. Organize a 700-person protest, a lot of silence...
...talk about something as silly and flippant as a logo, and everyone starts chatting. Meh. It happens.
I am not one to back down from criticism where criticism is due, but I'll say this: in a weird way, I like the theme. I'm shocked that I had the revulsion I originally did, or that so many people continue to. It's campy as hell, and I think the shirts will sell out because it is such a joke. Was it approached that way? Hell no. It was presented in all seriousness and, when we did bring it up, those of us critics were attacked for not being involved. Sell it as something fun.
If it's camp, it's absolutely fabulous, and I'll be the first to buy a t-shirt.
It plays off so many brilliant ideas and jokes and sillinesses that make up the Cincinnati gay community that I can barely contain myself. It plays off the bestiality jokes; it plays off our history as the pork capital (which is a joke in and of itself); it plays off the sexual innuendos of "pig sex;" all the while tying everything into the innumerable pigs dotted around the city... while making fun of it and making it our own. As camp, it's absolute brilliance.
I doubt that's what it was intended as, but, in my era of playing nice(-r), I'll give them the benefit of the doubt.
I also think the organizations and participants of the Pride Party should take up the theme and make it a good ol'fashion ho-down. I like cowboy hats and overalls, especially on men. I would love, love, love to see it played up and see what, say, Adonis comes up with (guess: overalls and muscle boys and twinks).... or GLSEN (my guess: rural schoolhouse?). I think this is Shooters' year to blow us all away. Or the Serpent :-).
That said...
It's not a great logo, for one purpose: it will turn out blob-like in a copy machine. The cost of printing that is going to be egregious. I mean, it's a really nice image and it plays into the whole theme really well... but logos need to be simple, easy to scratch out, easy to remember, easy to copy, easy for you to doodle somewhere. The incarnation is more of a banner.
I mean, I would like it if it were part of a general exhibit of the theme itself, but I'm not too hot on it as a logo.
That said...
I have news for people who criticize the critics: just because they are being critical does not mean they are wrong, and just because they aren't doing what you ask them to do everyday mean that they have no rights to talk.
Guess what? 99% of the people who benefit from and/or involve themselves in your events/etc. will not be there to plan or put it together. In the end, of the 7,000+ people that will attend Pride, less than 100 of them will say they had anything to do with Pride in the first place except to turn out, hang with friends, and get stupid drunk. And it's not us bloggers you're going to have to answer to...
...it's them.
Consider us the more vocal version of the masses. Not really. But wouldn't you rather here it from us so that you, whom you do hear from rather than lash out at random 20-something twink boys at the parade the day of? We're vetting you. Prove to us that it's worth it. Don't lash out and attack us for not being involved.
Guess what? Blogging is involvement.
I don't hear you criticizing any other person in the city for not being involved. If you'd like, we can start naming people with absolutely nothing to their name in terms of accomplishment other than being the treasurer of so-and-so organization (that was not directed at any in particular, I promise, I was just making a point). We are doing what we do best, us critics.
We're being critical. And, in the end, that could be good for you.
That said...
I think we have been unfairly critical, including myself, of the process at times. Pride is a big event and there aren't nearly enough people involved. And they are doing the best they can with what they have, which isn't much (money, support, time, etc.) -- but that's a perennial problem for everyone. In the end, we all get drunk and have a good time and life goes on as normal.
They went out on a limb. It could have been awful and boring like "Unity through Community." I'm glad they are trying something new and different. Huzzah on them. I hope they try something new again next year.
That said...
I always hope for more than I get at Pride. I've been going for years and I have yet to say I had this amazing time that blew me away. I find myself wandering the circle over and over again, hugging everyone I know, and then getting a beer and thinking, "Well, now what?"
That said...
None of this really matters. There are bigger things to fight about, and fights to pick with bigger people with more power and importance than the Pride Planning Committee. In the end, it's nothing, and it will continue on ad infinitum until someone with a lot of vision, time, and connections takes over. As it always was.
But, in a time period where we're seeing a renewed sense of urgency, activism, and desire to change, don't we have better things to deal with than the freakin' Pride theme?
That said...
To both sides: the bits on my Facebook are excellent that should be brought up. From darling Penny Tration: keep 'em talking. And from Miss Chanak (via John Zeh): All press is good press so long as they spell your name right.
Aren't we giving Pride a lot of coverage, right now? And aren't we involving the community in a necessary discussion about the direction of Pride?
I'm just saying. Controversy can be good, too.
That said...
Oh. I'm done. I hope I've offended everyone. It was totally my purpose this morning.
Oh, and in a bit of glorious irony, I became a fan of the Gay & Lesbian Community Center on Facebook. Seriously.
Pride Web Site?
In fact, searching Google for it turns up the above website (albeit Cincy related), but the only place I can actually find information on the dates of Cincinnati Pride is here.
Pride's been added to the list to your right.
Pride Comedy Show!
Thanks to Miss Chanak for the update...
Folks - Just chatted with Gene Sell of The Court (I.S.Q.C.C.B.E) - and the Court is doing a fundraising event - for the Gay and Lesbian Community Center of Greater Cincinnati. Enjoy a night of comedy, live singing and drag...Now, I'll admit, the last two years I went were kind of so-so, but I don't think Gene was involved. In fact, last years' was so bad, I even performed and I'm hardly worth squat in a performance. But, it's moved locations and Gene seems to be back on board, so it should be an amazing event!
Pride Alive Show
Location: The Syndicate
18 East 5th Street
Newport, KY
Date: Wed May 27th
Time: Door open 5:30 pm - show begins at 7 pm
Contribution:
Reserved Seating - Tables of 8 - $100
Open seating - in non-reserved section - $10 per person
Money raised at this event will be given to the Gay and Lesbian Community Center to support the Gay Pride Celebrations in June. Some of the money raised may be set aside by the Community Center for the building fund for future growth.
The restaurant at the Syndicate will be open if you wish to arrive a little early for dinner.
For tickets/information, contact Gene Sell at 859-781-3299. All Checks must be made out to the I.S.Q.C.C.B.E.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Denver's Pride Theme

And I thought Cincinnati's was bad :-).
MileHighGayGuy announces Denver's: "Worldwide Pride -- Connecting the Dots"
You know, Squealing with Pride is starting to grow on me. At least it doesn't wreak of gray-ness.
They have an official pride blogger? Interesting. It's an idea.
Oh, and don't forget about the Pride Committee Meeting this evening at the MCC. I may actually be in attendance, though I'll be bringing homework.
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
CINCY GAY SCENE: Pride Planning Committee Meeting
I was moderately impressed. Moderately.
Structurally, Pride itself is not changing, it seems this year, except for minor adjustments (the Saturday Festival, for example, changing times to start and end earlier, for example) and a few additions (including an attempt to get real entertainment and possible 'Party Bus' to appease the ever problem of the whining of downtown bars). However, things are far more organized this time around than they were at this point at any of the meetings I ever attended over the now deposed queen of the Center and all Pride -- wait, that was only her self-styled title. For that, I applaud the new (and large) organizing committee, though I wonder about how many of those people stick around for May -- myself included. I seem to remember that I bolted from Cincinnati the day of the Parade last year.
Joe also seems to be consolidating the organization and adding some well needed energy to the planning process -- thank the goddess.
Unfortunately, my own primary complaint seems to be so ingrained in the structure that I wonder if it will ever be possible to break: why the hell do we still have the Parade on Sunday? The Parade should be on Saturday and the Drag Races on Sunday. But that's neither here nor there and representative of a more systemic issue. (And one that's too late to change, at this point, but I do like to complain as much as possible.) There is an addition of a logo contest to go along with the, regrettable, theme this year of Squealin' with Pride 2009. It's like they went to the Serpent one evening and asked every coked out bottom what would be a good theme.
Regardless, I maintain two complaints: one, with a few exceptions, the organization is dominated by well-off early to middle-middle age white men with more money and connections than they know what to do with. And, the second complaint, they do a lot of sitting around wondering (and I quote) how to get the "younger folks" out. Geez.
Not saying I know how, but I can be sure that referring to them as "younger folks" over and over again is probably not the best set up for an impressive turnout :-).
My own bitchiness aside, I'll keep going and I'll keep reporting. But I leave you with three questions:
Oh, and a spoiler: Cheryl Eagleson and John Maddox have been tapped as the Grand Marshalls. I don't think that was confidential information, I'll see what kind of response I get.1) What would you like to see at Cincinnati Pride that you've never seen before?
2) Who would you like to see at Cincinnati Pride as a performer? (the dream list included people like Margaret Cho and Kristine W. . . I'll be interested to see what they can pull off)
3) Since most of my readers are "younger folks," what would bring you and everyone you know to Pride in Cincinnati this year?
4) Why is anyone still pretending like the Greater Cincinnati GLBT News is read by this target audience? I liked how their promotional ideas were keyed around two things: Michael X. Chanak's massive email list and the GLBT News. I'm sure there are no other ways that gay people in Cincinnati get their news or information... I'm sure I don't know of any. God I miss Sam and Q-City.
Next Meeting: November 18th, 7pm @ The Metropolitan Community Church in Northside. Mistress Cody, my dear vlogger, I may ask that you attend with.
PS Also met a cute boy last night ... but there are some things to... consider first.
Monday, September 10, 2007
CINCY GAY SCENE: Two quick things:
It seems so simple... this is a flash game, btw... there are balloons, just pop them. I'm stuck on level like 47 of the player pack. Any clues? (Oh and watch out for the other games, they are also addictive.)
BLOONS
Two:
Check out this year's Cincy Pride video -- I gave some of the pictures for it!!!
I think that's all for the night.. have a great day tomrow!